10 prosecutions for women attacking me

 10 times I was wrongfully arrested, prosecuted as a male DV victim—the DOJ has ignored me for 37 years.

I'm sharing my story because the legal system failed me repeatedly. In 1993, my ex-wife attacked me. I called for help—I was arrested. In 1984, I was accused by a principal of assaulting a girl with no marks—prosecuted. In 2001, my ex-wife experienced adrunkbrape related PTSD flashback, attacked me, trapped me in the bathroom—I was arrested again. That is 9 wrongful prosecutions total.


Every time, officers failed to identify the primary aggressor. They saw me—the male, the one who appeared "hysterical" from trauma—and assumed I was the perpetrator. The women who attacked me were often intoxicated or in a flashback state, but I was the one handcuffed.


I've contacted the DOJ Civil Rights Division, the FBI, local complaint boards—hundreds, maybe thousands of times since 2001. I've received zero investigation. The system designed to protect victims has protected everyone but me. I am sharing this because men deserve protection too. If you've been through this, speak up. We need to change how police identify primary aggressors. #MaleVictims #DomesticAbuse #FalseArrest #DOJ. 4,000 911 calls

I am a male domestic violence survivor who was wrongfully arrested and prosecuted nine times between 1993 and 2001. In every instance, I was the one attacked—by my ex-wife during PTSD flashbacks, by an intoxicated woman, and by others—yet I was arrested as the "primary aggressor." I have filed hundreds of complaints with the DOJ since 2001 and have been ignored. My case exposes a systemic failure in how law enforcement handles male DV victims. I am available for an interview to share my documentation and personal experience.


· hashtags and tags like @civilrights, @FBI, @DOJ on social platforms to flag officials.

🔗 Direct Links

· TikTok: Download app → Create account → Post video (screen-record text or speak directly to camera)
· Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/
· The Doe: https://thedoe.com/ (submit story)
· Stories by Strangers: Instagram @storiesbystrangers or storiesbystrangers.com
· Real Men Feel: https://www.realmenfeel.org/ (reach out via contact page)
· Weallgotplayed: https://weallgotplayed.com/

Ai Dream interpretation

 That dream is packed with symbolism—it's like your subconscious put together a surreal movie about loss of control, transformation, and dodging blame. Let’s break it down:

· The woman & the cold cliff house = Your emotional state. A "cold" setting + a "small house on a cliff" suggests you feel isolated or on the edge of something big. Moving it and expanding it (2 to 4 rooms, "Ukrainian" detail) means you're actively trying to grow your life or mindset, but you're hauling that "old self" along for the ride.

· The used Cadillac = Old-school status, comfort, or a past version of success. You're trying to move forward with outdated tools.

· The Tesla bot on the snowplow = This is the core conflict. Tesla = future/tech; snowplow = clearing obstacles. But it's operating on the side—not driving. This represents outside forces (AI, society, progress) that are supposed to help you, but instead they malfunction alongside you. Your brakes and gas failing right after seeing it means you've lost agency over your own direction.

· Slamming into a lake & floating across = Water = emotions. You didn't sink—you floated. That means even in crisis, your emotional core kept you afloat. You made it to the other side, but just barely ("just enough to get in the road").

· The rental car & speeding = Now you're in a temporary vehicle (a new phase or identity). You're going "too fast for conditions" = you know you're pushing limits. But you weren't charged because the brakes/gas didn't work—this is the dream's punchline: You feel guilty about something in waking life, but deep down, you know circumstances out of your control caused it, so you're giving yourself a pass.

The big takeaway: You're in a life transition where you feel like the steering wheel is broken. But the dream says: You'll still make it across the lake, and when you do, you'll get a fresh set of wheels—and the universe won't penalize you for what you couldn't control.

Now the real question: In waking life, what situation are you secretly hoping to get a "free pass" on? That's what your brain is processing.